“You make a better door than a window.” Standard sarcasm, growing up, at someone standing in front of something you want to see. It’s a phrase that pops back into my mind, directed at myself, every time I look up and realise I’m the one standing in my own way. Where I’m going, what I’m looking for – all obscured by a big, nagging, gnawing ball of self-doubt, insecurity and fear of failure and not being good enough. Over the years I’ve built up some ways to get past the self-doubt. Ways to not just find the window, but to…