I met David O. Russell at a party once. Yes, this anecdote could go a lot of dubious directions but we simply exchanged a few polite words. I was in post-production on my first feature and he was also in post on a film (later unreleasable) and he smiled, sighed, and said “isn’t it a damn hard thing to make a good movie?” Every aspect of this industry is hard – being under a microscope as a woman, lack of opportunities, mentorship and a system that seems constantly stacked against us – but what we overlook is that sometimes the…