Making the film “Incredible Girl” was exciting and scary for a couple of reasons. One, I’d never taken on producing a film project like this before from start to finish. Two, It’s a ‘sexy’ film based on a true encounter, which meant I had to expose some of the innards I’d been hiding in a public way. But connecting to your true self is what it takes to feel the extraordinary. I’m tired of playing small and mediocre. It actually hurts because I know the extraordinary is out there and that I can have it. Sex is a taboo subject.…